{"id":29550,"date":"2026-06-01T17:51:09","date_gmt":"2026-06-01T08:51:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/je1sgh.mydns.jp\/je1sghblog\/?p=29550"},"modified":"2026-06-01T18:16:26","modified_gmt":"2026-06-01T09:16:26","slug":"%e3%81%be%e3%81%95%e3%81%8b%e3%81%ae-%e5%a4%b1%e6%81%8b-3-%e5%86%8d%e4%bc%9a","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/je1sgh.mydns.jp\/je1sghblog\/?p=29550","title":{"rendered":"\u307e\u3055\u304b\u306e \u201c\u5931\u604b\u201d (3) \u518d\u4f1a"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

失恋の再体験<\/a>について，1つ肝心なことを書いていませんでしたが，相手は小中学校の同級生でもあるのです1<\/a><\/sup>．それが今回会ってくれた最大の原因だと思います．<\/p>\n\n\n\n

詳細は書けませんが，今も現役で活躍中の素敵な人でした．妻と先方の関係者も交えて一時間半ほど楽しく話をして帰りました．<\/p>\n\n\n\n

その再会に前後して，AIとチャットしながら心の整理をしてみました．<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2回ぐらいぐるぐる回ったのですが，同じ結論で，彼女の就職先が決まったタイミング2<\/a><\/sup>と場所3<\/a><\/sup>が絶妙に私にチャンスを与えなかったこと，その就職先も関係しますが，早く結婚が決まったことが全く想定外であったこと，などから私はすべきことはしたけれど，目はなかったと言うしかありません．<\/p>\n\n\n\n

逆に言えばもっと早く別のところに就職先が決まっていたら私にも大いにチャンスがあったと思います．<\/p>\n\n\n\n

一言で言えば運命でしょうか．<\/p>\n\n\n\n

AIとこういうやりとりを繰り返しているうちに，その失恋のことを思い出しても以前ほどの苦しさは感じなくなってきました．心の整理ができてきたのかもしれません．<\/p>\n\n\n

  1. 厳密には同じクラスになったのは小学校5, 6年生の時だけで，中学では同じクラスにはならず，3年の生徒会役員で一緒でした． ↩︎<\/a><\/li>
  2. かなり遅かった． ↩︎<\/a><\/li>
  3. かなり遠かった． ↩︎<\/a><\/li><\/ol>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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